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How do I get this girl?

We’ve had this question from Warren in response to The Naomi Show video The Secrets to Approaching women

I have a girl at my local Community club that I think is great. She Works at the club as a waitress, so I can’t really buy her a drink. I’ve smiled she’s smiled back but we have never spoken as she’s flat out with taking orders. Only time I even get to look at her now is if I go and get a drink from the bar near where she works. Any suggestions on what I can do?

Do you have any advice for Warren? I’m sure he’d love to hear your thoughts – and you can leave your comments below.. no need to be a member – just comment away!


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March 12, 2010 by nrobson  

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  1. Robert Douglas says:
    May 13, 2010 at 11:36 am

    Warren I suggest you have a ‘rehearsal’ at another place somewhere and get used to actually speaking to women in places like that, there’s no harm done, just say something about the weather etc, no committment, no fuss. Then when you are ready go for the big one, but you must do something or give it away quickly.It’s quite likely she is just smiling at you because it’s part of her job but you either do something or forget it. I used to have this same dilemna about waitresses/barmaids etc very early on – around 16 – but I decided to just forget about strategies involving them and rely on word of mouth through friends or the sudden ’spark’ when Cupid wanted to play and he did the work for me through accident or chance.

  2. Eddy Carniato says:
    March 12, 2010 at 4:02 pm

    Hi Warren

    The simple advice is “she gets paid to be friendly and smile at you” as it’s her job. She is a person hired to provide service and to be friendly, that’s it.

    If you think she could be the love of your life and you could both live happily ever after then trust me, she will make herself known to you. Have you tried being there when she’s workin gwit ha very attractive female friend? Trust me on this, if she’s ‘into you’ this will bring out the jealous and competitive side of her and she will make sure you know about her. Women are very competitive when they want to be. Also, what this does to improve your status in her eyes is it says “he’s with that really hot girl, wow, he must be a great guy/safe/good lover/(whatever she wants to think about you). This will work so it’s worth a try.

    While you’re at it, make sure whenever you’re there you’re having fun, being happy, around friends who like to hang with you. This sort of apearance of confidence will work heaps for your task at hand of getting her interested in talking to you.

    Enough for today, good luck in your pursuit of this fabulous girl!

    Ed

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