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To boyfriend or not to boyfriend….

I’ve been seeing a guy for the last few months and it’s going really well. He’s great, funny, smart, we get each other… And it’s naturally progressing towards a serious relationship. The problem is that I was really happy on my own.

I’d finally gotten to a stage of being content not to be in a relationship. After a long string of relationships I had a year to myself. The first half of which was really difficult. I’d never felt more sad or scared or alone… But then I started a new job, met some new people and just got my groove back (aka Stella).

SO it’s wonderful to meet this new man but I don’t want to dive straight back into the depths of a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. Maybe this is based on my past experience, but I feel like a relationship holds you back from a lot of other opportunities. And being single is just so fabulous.

To boyfriend or not to boyfriend, that is the question.

Nat


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March 12, 2010 by admin  

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  1. kath says:
    March 22, 2010 at 11:17 am

    Why don’t you just take it slow and become friends ? You don’t need to lose the person you have become and maybe you may decide after a while that .. you want more with this person .. or maybe not

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